In my life, there are seasons where I’m an introvert and at other times an extrovert. I don’t believe we can define ourselves as one or the other because we’re gradually changing over time. Our moods are influenced by our outward circumstances and our attitudes are affected by our inner state of mind. We’re also, influenced by the people around us – we may take the backseat around those who are more exuberant than us or take the limelight around those who are quieter than us.
Lately, I’ve learned not to judge myself or put myself in a box. There’s no right or wrong, better or worse, good or bad. Rather we need to learn to embrace the mystery of who we are in the different stages of life. We’re both wonderful and beautiful, simple yet complicated, whole yet broken. There are so many contradictions within us, so many colours of emotions, so many arrays of thoughts, things we do in the shadows of our intent. There wouldn’t be enough lifetimes to discover everything about ourselves because we’re constantly changing. Be self aware but not self-critical. Let it lead you to a place of beauty, truth and love of yourself.
©2013 Susie Lee
lovely piece,it’s nice and brief
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Thank you Samuel for your positive feedback. I appreciate it.
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Great attitude. It is good to accept one’s self. I’ve made this discovery recently. It is freeing, isn’t it?
— Lauren
http://www.thelvds.com
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Yes Lauren, it’s very liberating – no judgment or self-loathing, just simple acceptance. To embrace and enjoy where we’re at in our season of life. Thank you so much for your comment!
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🙂 Welcome
— Lauren
http://www.thelvds.com
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